Tag: friends
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update to “oh hey!” published may 2021

I get asked about the “oh hey!” post fairly frequently. People want to know what happened when I got together with Sue. Did I ask her why she blew us off? Did she own it or did she deny any wrongdoing? At the time I wrote the blog post, I had plans to see Sue…
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dry january

Congratulations to everyone who succeeded in their mission to participate in Dry January. Instead of being alcohol free, my Dry January was really a lack of creativity that led me to ignore my blog and spend a ridiculous amount of time watching all five seasons of “Six Feet Under.” While it was an entirely enjoyable…
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dashing through december
This is going to sound strange but December 26 through the 31 are my favorite part of the holiday season. Once the presents are open, parties are over and the massive to-do list has been achieved or ignored, I can finally breathe out the stress that has been building since Thanksgiving. I previously wrote about…
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nyc experiment: week twelve and faq
nyc experiment: week 12 and faq Two weeks ago today, I published the nyc experiment: week 11 post and the last fourteen days have been a blur. We took off to visit our daughter on November 16 and spent four days with her in Amsterdam and then flew with her to Copenhagen where she is…
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nyc experiment: week eight
We are two thirds of the way through our 12-week experiment. We actually only have three weeks left in New York because we are going to Europe to see our daughter who is studying in Copenhagen. We have 21 days to soak in the city and there is no doubt these last days will go…
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nyc experiment: week three
nyc experiment: week 3 Week three has been a whirlwind. It started with tennis in a bubble on Roosevelt Island and shopping at the showrooms with a Bay Area tennis buddy and ended with the NY premiere of the movie “Bro’s” with my cousin on the Upper West Side. Since we arrived on August 31,…
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run around
Recently, I had a hugely awkward interaction that gave me pause. With nothing but good intentions, I went to buy new running shoes in a local running store. I have successfully purchased shoes in this store over the last 15 years and never had an issue. Buying running shoes is one of the few purchases…
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can you see me?

Last year, I read a book called “Calling Invisible Women” by Jeanne Ray. The story resonated with me as the main character was a married mother of two in her early 50’s who wakes up one morning and realizes she is invisible. Her family does not notice any change in her but her friends notice…
